Eva – La Señorita O

Favourite activities in a session

• Humiliation
• Immobilisation/Bondage
• Surrender
• Impact Play
• Tasks and challenges

No Gos

• Unsafe (no Condom, CIM or NS in mouth/face)
• Kisses
• KV
• Needles/Medical
• No blindfold

Current favourite toy

Well I do not know if you can call it a toy but I DO love flogger. Since years and I still do. It had a special role in my initiation in BDSM. It was linked to my first education and very soon I asked – when allowed – to have it for fun. It is so versatile… Plus it is a dear informer, it tells me a lot of things of the person using it even if they do not speak a lot.

What kind of BDSM person are you?

I am always a bit jealous when I hear people explaining how as early as in their teen years they had these type of fantasies or even realized them. Well, that was not at all my case. Yes, you can say I felt attraction preferentially for men with “a bit” of character, those being able to make their will happen, etc. But all in a plain “vanilla” region. And then a certain partner came and it was like discovering a new dimension, unleashing a whole new part of me, taking me to indulge in certain practices that months back I would have deemed as unacceptable I was being more myself than ever before. And that was just the beginning: BDSM is a journey where I still hope to explore and experiment a lot.
I have a quite classic approach to BDSM, where rules and limits are paramount. The protocol. SSC safe-secure-consensual is sometimes regarded as a sad limitation by some tops. Well I see it the other way around: it is the framework where I am going to find the safe space to devoutly surrender. And when I surrender then I am happy to explore limits with the correct person. But of course that requires intelligence, attention to details, understand that it takes two to tango, otherwise it will remain just sex with a certain choreography. And that would be a pity because there is much more in BDSM than that.

What sets you apart?

I do not fake submission, I do not need at all to because I am naturally inclined to it. The only downside it is that I am very reliable detecting the few cases where the partner it is not up to it. I enjoy serving dominant men, particularly when they master the mindfuck game. But even in that case they rather should be ready to face a slightly bratty girl. You need a bit of fun, right? Punishment there will already anyway…

What is dominance / submission for you?

In a way something as simple as accepting a differentiation in roles where one side is gaining certain rights to act on the other… precisely because the other has accepted to transfer them. This is opening – for both – a new universe of possibilities to enjoy, where the bottom will focus on obedience and the top on responsibility. At the end they are dancing in a different form to reach together new forms of pleasure. And as the adagio has it, the journey can be even more important that the end!

What do you love about SM?

It is the only thing than can take me to certain levels of happiness and consciousness (Author’s note: yes I do not do drugs haha). Of course there might be a certain level of pain involved: and while it is “just” pain and not harm, then it can be dealt with, processed and even enjoyed. It is even a form of communication that can take you to a different level, call it subspace or however you want to call it.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?

I am afraid I will not be very original with this one. Tired of despotic chiefs, shabby companies, miserable pays with a hell of a schedule I asked to myself: is there not really a way to connect passion and fulfillment with reasonable working conditions? Well, if you are reading this I guess you know which was the answer. It is not long ago that I am professionally active, like 5 years, so no lot of changes apart from some laws in my country that, while theoretically seeking to improve conditions for women, they are just doing life more difficult for customers.

How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?

Not fan of long talks, but definitely we need to agree in some areas. Contact me through the contact form or Telegram. I will be in Berlin just for some days, I cannot be flexible with that sorry. But for the time in the day I can be much more. Please very clear about your wishes, and while I can accommodate many of them please do not forget my No-Gos: they are called taboos for a reason.