Mistress Hard to Forget

Dominatrix specialised in role play and unusual fetishes.

Favourite activities in a session

• Bondage
• Forniphilia
• Golden shower
• Crossdressing
• Conversation

No Gos

• Intimate Contact
• Blood
• Permanent Marks
• Breath Play

Current favourite toy
Coat hanger and shoe horn. What I will do to you with them will be left for you to imagine.

I love to use random objects in my sessions and prefer them over the conventional BDSM toys, but don’t worry, you can always convince me to whip you as well.

What kind of BDSM person are you?
My favourite sessions are those that are far from the cliche images of BDSM and more resemble theatre. I offer domination but I also like to work with fetishists who are not necessarily into BDSM but just want to live out their fantasies in my company. That being said, I still enjoy more classical sessions as well. With a thoughtful client, any fetish can be exciting to explore. My sessions are driven by curiosity – to find out more, to understand more, to experience more. The most I enjoy sessions that are either nearly silent or purely conversational. Some of my favourite requests are those where I am asked to play a therapist or a teacher. I also enjoy sessions with extravagant food, sessions and fetishes concerning materials and objects, and sessions and fetishes around costumes, makeup and crossdressing.

What sets you apart?
I am not the kind of dominatrix to appear to a meeting dressed in black leather or latex. I come in a cashmere sweater and ballet flats. I am not cruel and mean, but just serious, and if you wish, I can even be quite sweet. I might not say a single word during our session but you will cry and feel things you have never felt before. And you will come back to me sooner than you planned.

What is dominance / submission for you?
For me domination is about using the most simple tools and actions to guide someone through intense emotions. It is barely having to touch someone to change their life. I am interested in the kind of domination that is contemplative and intense, some would say, remedial. For me it is both a sensory experience and a psychological experience. And it’s also about having fun.

What do you love about SM?
What I love about it is people’s stories. I love to get to know my clients and understand what brought them to me and what they are missing. I love to see them finding out things about themselves they had no idea about. I love it when they write me and tell me I have changed their lives forever. I love to make fantasies real and reality into fantasy.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?
I got into this work by accident around 10 years ago, when I was browsing Craigslist and decided to meet up with some fetishists. It soon became my profession and now, many years later, not much has changed about my approach, but I have become a professional in what I do. After hundreds of meetings, I am probably better at reading you than your analyst.

How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
When you contact me, please give me all the necessary details to arrange the meeting. I do not answer short messages – introduce yourself and tell me about your wishes in detail.