Darius Rex

Favourite activities in a session

• Sophisticated role play & pet play
• Raw wrestling & (un)tamed primal play
• Exploring depths – anal exploration
• Ritual play – ritualizing power, breaking rules
• Wilde Slime Play

No Gos

• Vomit
• Scat
• Catheter
• Illegal activities

Current favourite toy
You are my most valuable toy – especially your alert mind, which carries the longing for pleasure, authenticity, and radical self-determination. In the session, your body becomes a living instrument with which we explore together how pleasure, control, surrender, and boundaries can be reshaped again and again.
The tools and toys we use are not mere objects, but bridges to your inner world. They open up spaces where your body feels, your mind awakens, and your boundaries become powerfully tangible – not to cross them, but to make them palpable and consciously shape them.
This encounter is more than play: it is a mindful, political, and sensual act of self-empowerment. You are the heart of every touch, every moment – and together we create a space where your presence, your desires, and your authentic self come alive.

What kind of BDSM person are you?
I am a creative, sensual, and devoted BDSMer – playful, empathetic, and with a fine sense for dynamics that get under your skin. Whether it’s petplay, wrestling, or imaginative role-play – I love diving into new worlds together, switching roles, and bringing the play with power and devotion to life.
As a sensual dominus, I want more than just control – I want to feel your desire. Your craving for more. Your trembling in the moment of tension, your sigh when you finally let go. Give up control and trust yourself to me – I’ll take you on a journey that can be as intense as it is liberating.
My hands are more than tools – they are instruments of pleasure and discipline. Trained in hand spanking, acupressure, and meridian massage, they know how to build intimacy and tantalizingly shift boundaries. And when it needs to go beyond that, I gladly reach for toys, impact instruments, and anything that makes the play more intense.
I love artful bondage and the variety of materials: leather or latex bags, collars or cold metal chains – every session becomes a tailor-made experience.
Whether it’s gentle exploration or playing with the intensity of physical punishment – I shape our time to suit you. Sensual, imaginative, demanding.
Let yourself go. Come on this journey with me. And discover what’s inside you when you let go.

What makes you stand out?I am a creative, sensual, and devoted BDSMer with over ten years of experience. For me, it’s not just about technique – but connection. I love building dynamics based on trust, emotional intelligence, and clear communication.
My roles are fluid – I can lead, hold, demand, and catch. I especially love regular sessions where we develop a deep D/s dynamic together. With each meeting, familiarity, intensity, and devotion grow.
I am a sensual dominus who wants to feel your desire – and your craving for more. It excites me when my paddle transforms your ass into a work of art of red spots. You may proudly present these traces of your devotion to me while my hand sinks deep into you.
“Awaken the animal in you” – this is not a cliché, but my approach to primal play. I want to touch the hidden in you. Not just your body – but what you don’t usually show. It starts with a look, a grip, a tingling under the skin. Maybe we wrestle, maybe I bite you, maybe my body presses you against the wall – but behind it is more than instinct: It’s an invitation to show yourself completely. Without a mask. Without a role.
I love these instinctive moments when lust is not played but lived. When you lie panting beneath me, kneel on all fours before me, or show me your marks – then I know: In this space, we are entirely ourselves.
What defines me is my sensitivity to your pace, my presence in the moment – and the desire to unfold you layer by layer. Give up control. Let yourself go. I’ll catch you – and lead you deeper.

What is dominance / submission for you?
For me, dominance and submission are pure tension – an electric play of lust, control, and devotion. It’s about more than power: It’s about the conscious exchange of this power. About the crackle when you give me your control – and I take it over enjoyably, demandingly, sometimes mercilessly.
For me, dominance is not a pose, but presence. I read you, feel you, control your desire. I challenge you, lead you to your edge – and sometimes beyond. I want your gaze when you wait, obey, tremble. When you feel that I’m holding you – even as I open you up.
Submission to me is not about subordination – it’s an act of strength. It takes courage to truly open up, to surrender to me, to enter a state through my hands, my voice, my rules where nothing matters except the moment.
D/s in play is for me a dynamic rush – sometimes hard, sometimes tender, sometimes mercilessly playful. I love controlling your reactions: a targeted command, a sudden strike, a deep penetration into body or mind. Pleasure becomes a tool, a weapon, a reward.
It’s not about rigid obedience. It’s about dedication with attitude, about curiosity, about letting go into a game that excites, provokes, and transforms you.
I play with you because I see you. And because I want you to feel yourself – more intensely, more clearly, more authentically than usual.

What do you love about SM?For me, SM is pure empowerment. I live what is still considered taboo in society and thus break conventions. Through SM, I can be more myself and create a balance in my stressful everyday life. There are countless ways in which I can experience and give pleasure.
SM has opened up completely new possibilities for me to see and use my body. As a trans man, which is often equated with FTM (female to male), I have redefined eroticism, desire, and passion for myself. SM was and is an enrichment that opens up new levels of lust and excitement. Being trans and practicing professional SM is an absolute rarity that is hard to find. I invite you to surrender to me and embark on this adventure.
Fetishes help me immerse myself in a new world and turn what happens in my head into reality. Fetish means excitement, nervousness, the tingling when what has long been only in my head finally happens. Through fetishes, I get to know myself better and give myself the gift of being able to be completely myself.
I love living out contrasts: strength and vulnerability. Dominance and surrender. Control and loss of control. SM allows me to play with all of this – sensually, wildly, intensely. Here, a form of sexuality emerges that doesn’t come from outside, but grows from within.
SM is not a taboo for me. It’s a tool, an expression, an art form. And perhaps above all: a place where I am completely myself – and can show you exactly that.
Especially in role-play, I can forget the world outside for a moment and completely surrender to my new role. I want to offer you this space too: A safe framework in which you can see yourself in a completely different light, discover new sides of yourself, and then step out into the world with much more self-confidence.
Have you always wanted a priest to show you how your sins can be atoned for? With my paddle and strict hand, you will be freed from all your acts of repentance. Do you want to be driven through the room by a cowboy? I hope you can gallop. If not, I hope you don’t have a problem with my riding crop.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?
What began as personal curiosity has today become a profession, a passion, and an attitude. For many years, I have been moving in the world of BDSM, kink, and consciously lived sexuality – initially as an explorer, then as a guide, today as a professional with experience, presence, and depth.
What has changed? I’ve delved deeper – into the diversity of (a)sexualities, into bodies, desires, and dynamics that lie beyond normative ideas. I’ve learned to listen, to feel, and to hold spaces – for lust, shame, play, pain, transformation.
Today, I work as a coach at BDSM Studio LUX, hold workshops and lectures on kinky topics and somatic sexuality – always with the aim of bringing people into contact with themselves and their pleasure.
My tools have evolved over the years. In addition to classic BDSM and D/s, I incorporate elements from Sexological Bodywork – for an even more conscious, physically anchored experience that goes beyond mere play.
I accompany people on sensual journeys, in intense sessions, and deep self-exploration. In doing so, one thing has become clear to me: BDSM is not a fringe topic. It’s a space where identity, power, physicality, and intimacy come together in a way that often touches more than words ever could.

How to make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
I prefer to be contacted by email – with a few words about your ideas, desires, taboos, your desired session duration as well as specific appointment suggestions. The clearer you are, the better I can assess whether we are a good match.
If the conditions are right and I choose you for a session, we will arrange a suitable date together.
A non-refundable deposit of €50 is required for a binding booking. The session is considered confirmed after receipt of payment.