Ferdinand Krista

Favourite activities in a session

• Bizarre Decadence
• Humiliation & Role Play
• Forced Bi
• CBT and pain
• Tender dominance

No Gos

• Scat
• Needle Play

Current favourite toy
My favourite toy doesn’t have to be made of rubber or steel, flesh and blood, cotton or wood. It just has to be able to materialise our thoughts, kinks and fantasies. My favourite toy is the object that puts you in the state I want to put you in at that exact moment. I can sense your fear, your desire for it, from your movements, from your gaze or your breath. My favourite toy can make you scream or fall silent, it can melt burning hot on your skin or make the hairs on the back of your neck stand on end in clammy coldness. You will feel the sadistic pleasure and the loving lust with which I use it on you.

What kind of BDSM person are you?
I am Male Bizarre.
I like to lose myself in deviant role-play, daring kinks and enchanting shenanigans. My understanding of myself as a BDSM person is so broad that at first glance it could almost seem like complete arbitrariness. But it is precisely the self-evident possibility of refusing to be categorised that makes the world of BDSM so appealing to me.

I am Male Bizarre.
Sexuality means freedom for me. I want to be able to adapt to situations, to be able to express myself just as playfully as a classic “leather daddy” as I do as a queer king in a negligee.

I am Male Bizarre.
I am BDSM. I am not BDSM. I am lust, I show lust. And I want to experience your lust, push it to the edge, stay there with you and enjoy the view.

That is Male Bizarre.

What sets you apart?
I am characterised above all by my playful creativity and a great inclination towards the bizarre, the empathetic and the depraved. I want to explore my play partners and get to know their desires and fantasies. I love to exploit thrilling situations and push them to the point of mutual exhaustion. I never use a fixed repertoire of means and objects, a prefabricated scheme, but use spontaneous impulses and inspirations to create surprising, humorous and very intense sessions.
What is dominance / submission for you? *
For me, dominance is the interplay of subtle power and the freedom to express it in many facets. Dominance is permanently perceptible, especially when it does not have to constantly reassure itself through aimless volume. Dominance is responsibility and dissolution of boundaries, it means control, loyalty, consensus and devotion. It is immersion in many forms and entanglements. It can be frightening or empowering. At its best, it is both together.

What do you love about SM?
SM is most fulfilling for me when I feel the surrender take control of my being and actions. I observe the facial expressions, reactions and impulses of my play partners in order to be able to react to them myself. A mirror in the mirror, an intimacy that never ceases to amaze, a blissful immersion in shame, pain and raw lust or other very deep, very human sensations.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?
It is often difficult to develop an honest approach to your own sexuality. How do you fathom your kinks when you don’t know them at all, how do you conceive fantasies when you don’t know where to start?

It wasn’t an immediate, direct path that brought me to this job. I don’t have a biography of youthful urge to explore, early parties in sex-positive circles or anything like that. I just clearly felt at some point that I was unhappy in my sexuality, without knowing what to do and where this feeling came from.

It was then my social environment, friends and current colleagues, who had to clearly point out what was obviously in front of me. I was – uptight. Frightened. Indecisive. My first sexual experiences beyond the familiar, well-trodden paths and finally a job in the field of BDSM and escorting were able to open my eyes. For all the varieties of sexuality, all the secret but widespread insecurities, all the concealed fantasies and different sensations. Getting to know this diversity, being able to contribute to bringing it closer to others, is the great happiness for me in this profession.

How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
The easiest way to make an appointment is by email to post@ferdinand-krista.com or via the contact form. Please describe your ideas, wishes and taboos when first contacting me. Appointments are rarely possible at short notice.