L’aDios

Favourite activities in a session

• Latex
• foot fetish
• bondage
• role-play
• crossdressing

No Gos

• scat
• vomit
• rimming
• permanent damage
• verbal humiliation as sub

Current favourite toy
I love to play between the delicate balance of softness and intensity. Whether it’s the gentle caress of a feather or the stinging sensation of a flogger with varying weight classes, I revel in the anticipation of each impact. It’s the uncertainty that adds to the thrill, leaving you wondering whether my touch will bring you exquisite pleasure or a delicious hint of pain.

What kind of BDSM person are you?
They often say that life happens when we least expect it, interrupting our carefully laid plans. I have mastered the art of fluidity, effortlessly navigating through your thoughts and emotions, playfully teasing from every angle. L’aDios exudes a commanding presence as a natural Domina and embodies the fiery spirit of a classic Latina, wielding power with each confident stride in my trademark high heels. My preferred technique, teasing and denial, keeps my subjects captivated, ensuring that all who submit to her address her as nothing less than a goddess.

I revel in the authenticity of true servitude, eschewing all mind games. The exchange of power and tribute must stem from a place of unwavering honesty. The privilege of worshipping at my feet serves as a mere reward for one’s exemplary behavior. I take pleasure in subs with an innate proclivity for introspection, a boundless imagination, and a profound acknowledgment of Woman’s dominion over the world. My methods of discipline span a wide spectrum, ranging from bondage and abandonment to corporeal punishment. Those who dare to test my limits and defy my authority will swiftly find themselves banished from my realm. Disobedience fails to captivate me; instead, I seek intellect, sophistication, and a fervent devotion at my altar. Your rewards are contingent upon your loyalty and your capacity to captivate and entertain me. I seek submissives who luxuriate in the realm of magical realism and theater, able to articulate their fantasies with exquisite detail. I relish in the evolution of our shared experiences, entrusting in the exploration of boundaries and the creation of indelible, life-affirming memories. In my presence, you will depart as a refined individual. Your anguish, in turn, becomes my delight.

What sets you apart?
L’aDios stands apart through authenticity, infusing each moment with genuine passion and sincerity. The fiery spirit that defines our essence transforms every experience into an electrifying journey, leaving an indelible mark. My unique approach to entertainment incorporates a delightful touch of humor, creating an atmosphere that is not only engaging but also uplifting. In essence, L’aDios transcends the ordinary, weaving together authenticity, fire, experience, and humor to craft an unforgettable and unparalleled encounter for all who join our vibrant community.

What is dominance / submission for you?
Dominance is not just about being at the top of the food chain; oh no, it’s an art form, a dance of power and control that comes in more flavors than your classic German gelato shop. We’re talking social swagger, hierarchical head-butting, and behavioral bravado. It’s all about flexing that authority and flipping the script your way.

It’s like a delicious tango of control and submission, where the dominant takes the reins and orchestrates the symphony of desire. Trust me, when it comes to dominance, there’s more than meets the eye., while the submissive willingly submits to the dominant’s authority. Dominance is a complex and multifaceted concept, varying across social, cultural, and individual contexts.

Submission, is all about playing by the rules, sticking to boundaries, and trusting that what’s agreed upon will be honored. And no, we’re not just talking about the spicy world of BDSM here. It’s about knowing when to dial down that independent streak and give in to someone else’s wishes, decisions, or hey, even leadership. And let’s not forget that submission isn’t just a mind game – it’s a full-body experience too. Sometimes it’s a soft emotional surrender, and other times, it’s a physical hand-over-the-reins kind of deal. So, the next time someone tries to tell you that submission is all about weakness, you can kindly remind them that it takes a whole lot of strength, trust, and sass to play by someone else’s rules while keeping your own fabulous self intact.

What do you love about SM?
What truly captivates me about S&M is the enchanting and limitless realm that comes to life within a magical playground. Here, one can rediscover the sheer joy of carefree play in a secure and nurturing setting, allowing for an unparalleled sense of liberation, trust and exploration. Something I have only found in the BDSM world. An authentic self discovery that is shameless.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?
In 2022, my life went full circle, and I found myself returning to a refined rendition of my former self. As we mature, we undergo profound changes, yet our essence typically remains constant. For an artist, metamorphosis and evolution serve as the catalyst for creation. Berlin, a city of nonconformists and exhilarating escapades, celebrates sexual openness and sensory pleasures. Embracing sex work at this juncture is empowering, reflecting my core beliefs. I am a “Warrior Goddess,” a “Sacred Prostitute,” and finally, a “Dominant Diva.” Over a decade, I honed my craft in NYC and LA under the tutelage of the esteemed Tara Indiana, whose mission was to “whip America back into shape, one mediocre white man at a time.” During this period, I pursued a career as a Tango Dancer, a dance that linked my soul to my South American immigrant heritage and the realm of sensuality. Having served as a fetish and art model for global artists, my acting foray propelled me into an international stand-up comedy tour across Asia, Europe, South Africa, and the USA. At 45, I cherish my time and the wisdom bestowed upon me by the universe. In an age replete with online dating and fleeting connections, I hold my time and energy as sacred. A night spent with me could encompass a myriad of experiences, from your fantasies to mine – a tender caress, a sharp whip, an impassioned embrace, immersive role-play, and much more. I am Lady Velásquez; I wear many visages, and you do not dictate which facet of me you encounter. As we grow closer, I shall gradually unveil my many layers. I am a devotee to the Goddess Aphrodite, who embodies love and ecstasy, amalgamating innate sexual urges with the refined art of lovemaking. “Aphrodite’s essence encompasses transformation through the potency of beauty and love – the [psychic] force behind all metamorphoses.” – E.F. Edinger

How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
I am available to email between the hours of 11am – 8 pm every business day Mondays – Friday. I return all messages within 4 hours or at the latest by 11 am the next business day.