Lady Lila

Favourite activities in one session

• Tease and Denial
• Edging
• Face sitting
• CBT
• Role Play / Mind games

No Gos

• Vomit
• KV
• Age Play

Current favourite toy
I love to surprise you with the mouth-dildo. This is such a fun toy for me, it fills your mouth so you are forced to be quiet and accept your fate, and it also lets me take charge of my own pleasure while you are forced to watch from the most tantalising teasing position. You will get the best possible view of me riding myself to orgasm, close enough to smell the sweet scent of my cum, but with no way to taste it!

What kind of bizarr lady are you?
I am a sensual Bizarrlady who mostly prefers to work more with her hands than her words. I love to build up the tension before a session so that you are nervous, with no way to tell the difference between fear and excitement by the time you are agreeing to please me in whatever manner that might be.

I love to get close, to let you feel the heat of my body, the warm tickle of my breath on the back of your neck, and the softness of my skin. I will giggle and smile as I push your buttons, to turn you on and have you begging me for release by the time we are done. I enjoy playing with a variety of toys, experimenting with pleasurable and painful sensations on your body. Maybe I will pull your hair, perhaps I will spit in your mouth. One thing is for certain, I will be doing my best to tease you for as long as possible. If you are good I might let you taste me, if you are bad you may feel the sting of a flogger or a whip on your ass, your thighs, or somewhere that makes you squeal for my amusement.

I expect to ultimately have fun together. I am happy to push your boundaries and test your limits, whether this might be in regards to pain or impact play, to seeing how long you can be edged, or taking on a role and playing mind games that have you questioning your own reality.

I do not often shout, raise my voice, or embody the ‘stereotypical’ strict Domina style of training and punishment – though I do take great inspiration from my wonderful colleagues who have demonstrated to me how useful this can be, especially when a sub resists giving up his power to me. I may feel soft, but do not be fooled as I can also sting.

What sets you apart?
I am the perfect mixture of sweet and mean, dancing between soft, gentle strokes and sharp strong touch. I can offer you a cruel experience, delivered with the confusing mix of a smile. I’ll fix you with my piercing blue eyes on you, holding you captive with only my gaze.

I prefer to play at eye level, embracing the vulnerability that comes with such intimate acts. If you seek kindness to go along with your pain and torment, I will hold you and reassure you. I will convince you to try harder, to take more, to do everything it takes to impress me and show me how strong you are.

I am open to playing with all genders, ages and couples or other relationship dynamics. I am queer and neurodivergent and am very open to discussing how to work best with your wishes if you have specific requests pertaining to disabilities or access needs.
What is dominance / submission for you? *
The games that we play are all about power and control. Power over each other, as well as power over ourselves and the self control we positively or negatively maintain. For some, submission is an unexplored area of themselves, the depths of which you go into it are completely unique from person to person. One may find themselves satisfied staying at the surface level of feelings, whether that be pleasure or pain. Others may dive deep into the more emotional level of themselves, submitting not just to me, but letting go of the beliefs that society has instilled in them, letting go of every construct they have built in their own identity, and allowing themselves to experience something new and incredible.

For me Domination is providing the experiences, and holding the space, for this self exploration to occur. Domination is providing a safe container to embrace kinks and fetishes in a non judgemental way. It is taking responsibility of your play partner, and having the privilege of their full trust as you guide them through their fantasies and allow them to find and rediscover their boundaries and limits.

What do you love about SM?
I love how it is always different from person to person – every interaction I have is unique and special. Even if someone wants to repeat the same scenario time and again, there is always something new to discover. Whether it’s to take more cane strokes than before, or try a new tool to create a new or more intense sensation.

SM is an escape from everyday life, it allows us to play safely and do things that are taboo beyond the closed doors, it can be a way to disengage with the self, or to find an intense connection with the body. It is an intense way to practice mindfulness, to practice acceptance and persevere resiliently. For some it can unlock and rewrite trauma, allowing one to reclaim a sense of ownership over the body that doesn’t always come naturally.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?
I had a friend in London who was a sexy latex model and artist, she told me she was also getting paid as a Dominatrix on the side, and I was amazed and inspired by her stories of her ‘bum drops’ jumping ass first onto admiring men. Since I had some years of kinky experimentations with partners in my private life, I was motivated to research how to turn these bedroom hobbies into a full career when I moved to Berlin.

Since I began playing with many different types of guests in the Studio, I have found my favourite things to do, as well as being open to learning and trying new skills and scenarios when I am given the opportunity. Whether it’s breaking in a brat who tries to top from the bottom, playing with a seasoned kinkster who knows exactly what they like, or guiding curious new submissives through their exploratory sessions, I find joy in many different scenarios. Since I have began I have really found my speciality as a touchable Domina, and have honed my skills in certain areas over the years. I have also enjoyed learning many things from working alongside other talented Dominas and have enjoyed attending workshops to expand my knowledge. When I started I didn’t think I would be offering needle play for example, but now this is something that excites me!

How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
The best way to make a session booking is to send an email with at preferably 48hrs notice. Make sure to include as much information about your interests and vision for a session, as well as letting me know if you have previous experience. We can also arrange a phone call if you wish to talk in more detail before we confirm anything.

Phone calls for same day bookings are welcome only when I have a day on the calendar at the studio.

I am at the studio most weeks, and can sometimes be available for a session outside of my set calendar days, so do feel free to send me a message to see if we can make it work. To avoid disappointment try to give as much notice as possible for this!