Lady Velvet Steel

Favorite activities in a session:

• Restriction
• Corporal Punishment
• Spanking
• Role play
• sensual explorations for SM beginners

No-Go’s

• FS
• OV
• Scat
• Vomit
• ABDL

Current favorite toy:
The consciousness of my counterpart. BDSM is a game that begins in the mind. As a dominatrix I use your body as a means to an end: to free your mind from everyday life and to explore abysses and boundaries together.

What kind of dominatrix are you?
As a classic dominatrix I am sexually untouchable, but I do not hesitate to use my charms or to feast on your sexuality. Physicality is important to me, I like to grasp, let you feel, play with my power.
As soon as our game begins, I will make you my property.

You can experience classic old school scenarios with me, sessions that are primarily about (physical) self-awareness, or purely pleasurable moments, for example, locked in a tight cocoon of leather and at the mercy of my hand.

I am now considered an expert in hard handspanking, a reputation I am very proud of. A proper OTK session means for me actually persistent and vigorous spanking.
Flagellants of all degrees of hardness are also very welcome to me: I introduce you carefully to the practices, show you gently increasing the exciting effect of paddle, whip, flogger and Co, or lead you with pleasure to your limits. Very gladly I use also favorite instruments brought by you!

Role-playing games are my great passion. I stage with you a detailed excursion into our fantasy world. Punishment and interrogation scenarios are particularly appealing to me. I love handcuffs, tight restraints, drill and crafty interrogations, lock-ins and lock-outs, to fancy long-term scenarios. But very gladly I will also take over your education to sub, the correct behavior in the presence of ladies, taking correct submissive positions, the control of your drive, all these are hurdles over which I will help you with vigor. Let me know if you would like to attend the Institute for Manual Behavior Correction for re-education – my classroom is ready for you!

I also love to play on sensual and physical boundaries, explore your resilience or discover your sensitive moments together with you. Fixations help you to free your mind from constraints, everyday life or your shame. Once you are in my bonds, your body is mine and you can surrender to the experience. It’s nice to be able to release control. I especially enjoy celebrating full fixations, with straps, ropes, chains, foil, or in my mummification special Duct Tape Deluxe. In these meditative sessions we focus on limits of your movement, focus on sensation, the moment.

I really enjoy playing with beginners and the curious, we’ve all started at one time or another and that delicious moment of tense nervousness and anticipation is something very special. I will be happy if you come to me for your first experiences and share your discoveries with me.

What makes you stand out?
I take time for you, your wishes, your fantasies. Besides the ‘what’, however, I am particularly interested in the ‘why’. Equipped with this knowledge, together we will be able to create a space in which much that is new or secret can be revealed. Your trust is for me an appreciation, my discretion a matter of course.

The preliminary conversation is important to me. I would like to get a personal impression of you, to know who you are, how you express yourself, what is important to you. I will be happy to meet you after a preliminary talk on another day for a session, so that we can then start right ‘from the door’.

I am a SM ptacticioner, also privately I live out my inclination with pleasure. As a dominatrix, however, my main concern is you and your experience. However, you can be sure that I pursue my profession because I can fully identify with it.

What is dominance / submission / fetish for you?
BDSM for me is a game between adult, awake people. Border crossers, explorers, connoisseurs, the curious, seekers, finders, these are my potential play partners. SM gives me the opportunity to try myself out outside social norms, to play with roles and to experience what is otherwise made impossible for me in the strict corset of our society. SM is also sexuality, eroticism, desire, sometimes healing and self-knowledge, but always a safe space for us to be as we like to be.

What do you love about SM?
I find the diversity of possibilities and the tolerance that comes with it quite wonderful. You are allowed to be as you would not show yourself anywhere else. I love playing elaborate scenarios, and intense moments. I think it’s completely wonderful to have a setting where you can go wild and let off steam together with your play partner(s).

How did you start this job? What has changed since then?
BDSM has always been a part of my sexuality. I was particularly fascinated by exploring the profound, the hidden. At some point it was clear: I want to go deeper here, know more, research more, do more. I started my professional career in a small backyard studio, 3 rooms, a dominatrix and two other colleagues. There, I still learned according to the classic “eyes closed and through,” with some guided sessions and lots of trial and error.

Soon I went traveling, got to know other studios and many, many colleagues, got a taste of other places to work in Berlin, and then LUX came along in 2015. From then on it was clear: BDSM is not only my vocation, but from now on also my career. In the meantime, I run the LUX alone, and can fully concentrate on creating one of the best places to work.

How to make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
I rarely do calendar days, but am at LUX several times a week. Appointments require advance notice – sometimes several weeks. Spontaneous guests can hope to catch me in a joint session with a colleague, the others need patience. I prefer a quick and concrete appointment via email. You know what you want and send me the necessary information. I love to play with women and trans people, but I also like to play with everyone whose fantasy exactly meets my fetishes. But whatever you do, don’t bring me cut flowers!