Madlen Pain

Is the cane! Firstly as a toy, which I use versatilely, and secondly as a visual symbol of power, discipline and necessary learning processes through submission. It is virtually a symbol of the control that you -as long as our game lasts- put into my hands. I always put one in the room even in sessions for which I don’t need one, because it already creates a noticeable atmosphere, which I find arousing.

First and foremost I’m a dominant sadist with a humorous, playful and nurturing side. I use tender and tough boby contact during our game strategically to increase your pleasure and your pain and to make you unconditionally submit, finally. I laugh a lot in my sessions and am also up for fun during hard punishment scenarios. After particularly intense spankings, my subs get tea and cookies to wind down if needed, we make ourselves comfortable, and I read them excerpts from Capital. (During the session, of course, there are also good opportunities to snack :) The most fun is when my guests were super loud during the session, and then have to go home excited and still horny.

My approach to the organizational aspects is structured and professional. The sessions are my pleasure. I attach great importance on the exploration of your preferences and the respect and observance of soft and hard limits. In return, I expect clear and informed communication regarding your desires, fantasies and taboos from you; as well as respect for my limits. Intensive preparation, as well as aftercare are mandatory components of SM play for me. I will only play with you when I have the feeling that our preferences match well.

What is dominance / submission for you? *

Dominance is an integral aspect of my personality and therefore also sexuality. In addition, living out my dominance is linked to individual responsibility, open and reciprocal communication as well as devotion.

1. Frustrating my playing partners. Especially when they give me a lot of money for it. 2. The entertainment it offers me. Even better than the money :D 3. The possibility to explore erotic secrets in a safe environment characterized by euphoric consent and mutual recognition, to throw off conventional (mental) shackles and to experience liberated pleasure.

Appointments are made only via e-mail. If you want to make sure that you get an appointment on your desired date, you should book the appointment at least 2 weeks in advance.