Ron Hades

Favourite activities in a session

• Bondage (in particular Shibari and meditative)
• Edging
• Teasing and denial
• Sensual pain play
• Intimate and sensuous sessions with couples

No Gos

• Age play
• Race play
• Scat

Current favourite toy
I love to play with the body of my sub, using them as an instrument. Hearing their moans, their breath and all the reactions that I can provoke and create. That is what excites me the most.

I see all human bodies as inherently beautiful and the body of a willing and compliant sub can offer almost unlimited possibilities.

Additional toys, aids and objects that I use include rope, clamps, and whips, as well as my own body. I’m open to using any kind of toy, but the touch of my skin against yours might be the best tool of all.

What kind of BDSM person are you?
I am a sensual sadist. I am nurturing, fun and empathetic as a Dom. In my sessions I am very playful and emotionally connected with my subs. During a session I am present, focused and completely in the moment. I’m not scared to be intimate with my subs – both emotionally and physically.

When I connect with a sub, I can feel where we are as the session develops and changes. I am in touch with the ebb and flow of the energy in the room. I am approachable and beginner friendly, but also have the skills and knowledge to dominate any hardened BDSM enthusiast. Having mutual trust is the key to us both having a deep and fulfilling experience. Open and honest communication is a core part of any session with me.

What sets you apart?
My subs appreciate my empathy and my ability to sense what they really need. My method of expressing dominance and power is very authentic. My subs can feel that, and this enables them to go further with me in a session than they ever previously thought possible. As I’m a very sexually open person, I offer my sessions to both men and women, as well as couples of any sexual inclination.

What is dominance / submission for you?
Depending on the people involved – dominance and submission can take many different forms. My main characteristics as a dominant are that I am compassionate, nurturing and sensual. BDSM is a central part of my life and is where my enthusiastic antennae are drawn towards.

I think that fetishes can be a vital part of BDSM, but they also don’t have to be. Fetishes can be a powerful part of anyone’s sensual development and I can help a sub to explore this side of themselves.

What do you love about SM?
BDSM brings out the truest version of myself. The freedom of SM means that I can choose how I want to be, without any restrictions. BDSM also helps me set better boundaries with other people, as well as with myself. The profound connection that brings about catharsis provides me with immense satisfaction.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?
Over the last few years I have been on a wonderful and fulfilling journey. BDSM has always been my passion and four years ago, my passion also became my job.

Since I became a professional Dominus I have discovered a variety of things about myself. There are many aspects of BDSM that I like and others that I have come to appreciate more and more.

As my experience as a professional Dominus has increased, my ideas and core principles have become clearer and increasingly well defined. My boundaries have become stricter and my interests have changed and developed over time.

My passion for BDSM has gone in several new directions thanks to the fantastic and diverse clients that I have met and connected with during my time at Lux. Some of these directions have been unexpected and each one has helped to increase my understanding of BDSM – which grows every day.

I have enjoyed every connection I have had with my subs since I began to work at Lux. I look forward to building existing relationships further and deeper, as well as forming many new ones.

How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
On your first message should include the following information:
– Name
– Clear and overt session suggestions
– Level of BDSM experience
– Relevant health information
– Limits