Anki Slay

Favorite Activities

• Tease and Denial
• Feminization
• Anal Training
• Chastity Play
• Impact Play

Current favorite toy

For me, toys are extensions of my control that help guide my submissives into deeper surrender. Which ones I prefer to use always depends on the dynamic we create and the threads I want to pull in a session. That said, one of my current favorites is the strap-on.

I like to begin slowly by building tension, guiding their breathing, feeling their body respond. From there, I can increase intensity depending on their capacity: gripping, pulling, controlling their movement, positioning them exactly where I want them. I like implanting the idea that, in that moment, they are an object that exists purely for my pleasure. The combination of the physicality and the psychological allows many submissives to drop deeply into subspace. And for me it’s equally empowering.

What kind of kinky personality are you?

Demanding, playful, and delightfully unpredictable. I enjoy keeping my play partners on their toes, never quite knowing what comes next, only that surrender will feel inevitable. I like to play with intensity, gently pushing boundaries and exploring how far someone is willing to go under my guidance. Always with clear consent and ethical awareness at the core of everything I do. I enjoy watching resistance soften and control slowly unravel in my hands.

What defines you?

My approach is intentional and attuned to the dynamics I create with each play partner. I pay close attention to how someone responds: their breathing, body language, hesitation and desire. This allows me to shape each session in real time, adjusting pace and intensity.

My genuine curiosity about the people I work with, and the enjoyment I take in my work shape my craft. I take time to understand their motivations, fantasies, and limits beforehand, creating experiences that feel personal and immersive rather than generic. Instinct plays a role, but it’s always supported by care and communication.

I may appear sweet and tender at first glance but beneath that softness lies a darker edge, one that delights in control, psychological play, and the art of seductive manipulation.

What is BDSM to you?

To me, BDSM is a transformative space, one that allows us to transcend societal expectations and step into the parts of ourselves that long to be expressed. It is a beautiful container built on trust and vulnerability. It’s also a playground where we explore desire, creativity, and fantasy in erotic ways. Experimenting with intense physical sensation cuts through mental chatter and brings heightened sense of presence, often becoming a gateway into deeper emotional release

BDSM allows the untamed aspects of one’s psyche to surface and be embraced rather than hidden. For me personally, it feels like home. A place where I can fully be myself while connecting with others on a profound level.

What do you love about SM?

What I love most is the intimacy of power exchange. Guiding a submissive deep into subspace creates a natural high for me. Submission is a gift I never take for granted and being trusted with someone’s hidden desires and vulnerabilities feels precious.

I’m naturally a controlling person so witnessing someone willingly become helpless in my hands is truly engaging. I also enjoy the creative freedom SM allows, as well as playing with fear (of course if previously negotiated), a topic I’ve always found very thrilling. Last but not least I love seeing how people step closer to their authentic selves.

How did you start and what has changed since?

I’ve been fascinated by power dynamics ever since I started exploring my sexuality. Power exchange seemed to be a natural part of intimacy for me and I always felt deeply connected to feminine power and the idea of it being honored and worshipped. For many years, those desires remained hidden under layers of shame until discovering the queer kink community that allowed me to explore and embrace my true nature more freely.

Eventually, I left behind a successful career in tech that ultimately lacked personal fulfillment to pursue professional domination with intention, transforming a private passion into my life’s work.

Over time, I’ve learned to embody a more authentic, intuitive expression of my power instead of trying to fit into a stereotypical mold of what a dominant person should be. My practice continues to evolve as I deepen my skills, curiosity, and understanding of the artistry of BDSM.

What do you expect from your play partners?

Honesty about desires and emotional states is essential to me, along with reliability and a willingness to explore personal edges. I value open communication, as it allows me to guide play more intuitively and deeply. Respect, cleanliness, and consideration for my time complete the foundation of a dynamic I can fully invest in.

How can one arrange an appointment with you? When are you available?

Please familiarize yourself with my limits and afterwards feel free to reach out either via this form below, mail or Whatsapp / Telegram. Include an introduction containing:
-Your preferences and taboos
-Any health considerations
-Your experience with BDSM
-The duration of the session
-Some possible dates
Preferably the session should be booked at least 48h in advance. I accept same day bookings only for days when I’m at the studio, which you can see in my calendar.