Ava L'affaire
Ava L'affaire
Bizarr

Femme fatale with a cheeky attitude and dangerous elegance

My voice is calm, my tone gentle. But my caring nature quickly turns out to be cruel manipulation.
I am an experienced leader and have the necessary sensitivity for beginners.
Anyone who is ready to meet themselves is welcome, regardless of irrelevant factors.

About Me

Current favorite toy

It is and always will be me.
My presence will be the whip that leaves its mark on your being.
My voice will lead you to other realms.
My gaze will bind you more tightly than any rope.
My touch will grasp YOU, not just your skin.

It doesn't take many toys to create an intense experience.
However, if I had to choose an object, it would definitely be my beautiful whips and canes.

What kind of kinky personality are you?

I have a natural dominance, free from preconceived rules.
I like to laugh, I am touchable when appropriate, and a touch of sarcasm is almost always part of it.
My dominance ranges from gentle, sensual playfulness to strict, sadistic leadership.
I am always genuine and unpretentious.
My dominance is effortless and has power without me having to demand it.
Whether in the studio or outside.

What defines you?

What makes my dominance special is that it is authentic and effortless.
My empathy allows me to read you during our time together and respond to you precisely.
I will responsibly take what is mine.
I enjoy a natural flow in which playfulness and curiosity quickly become apparent, and I combine this with a mixture of elegance and a cheeky bratty attitude.
This allows you to immerse yourself completely in the experience with me.

What is BDSM to you?

It has always been a topic that fascinated me!
I was drawn to the dominant side, as the gift of trust touches me deeply and dominance is something very natural for me, something that has been placed in my nature.

I take the lead in a caring way, but I also use it to push you to your agreed limits and perhaps stretch them a little.

For me, dominance and submission mean responsibly creating a space where you can make yourself vulnerable and show your gratitude.
There is no room for shame. Only for trust, curiosity, and perversion.

What do you love about SM?

I am impressed by getting to know each other better in this world of endless possibilities, by dealing more deeply with our own needs, fears, and desires.
The responsibility, vulnerability, and honesty that BDSM brings with it.

And reactions, your reactions.
I love to perceive how your body and mind respond to my actions.

How did you start and what has changed since?

I remember landing on one of the usual websites a few years ago and quickly becoming intrigued, as I had already had some experience with this, both privately and at parties.

Curiosity got the better of me, of course, and so what started out as foot kissing quickly turned into intense golden showers.
The rest was a natural progression; everything took its own course.
A lot has changed since I found those websites.
I couldn't imagine life without anymore and wouldn't want to miss out on all the experiences.
I've learned a lot, especially about myself and my communication skills. I've learned new things and want to learn so much more and experience it all together.
I'm grateful for this journey.

What do you expect from your play partners?

I expect my play partners to send me a respectful and detailed request containing the following important information:

  • A brief introduction, the desired day and time
  • The duration for which you would like to experience my guidance
  • A brief explanation of what you want to experience without going into detail.
  • Information about your level of experience, health condition, and taboos is also required.

It is important to understand that I cannot read minds.
Clear and transparent communication is essential if we are to come together at this level.

In addition, I expect a deposit so that I can keep my time free with a clear conscience.
This is kept as low as possible and can be sent either via PayPal or bank transfer.

How can one arrange an appointment with you? When are you available?

You can reach me via the messaging services listed. I don't always answer calls, but I do sometimes call back, so please be aware of that.

You can request me for any day, but I still prefer my listed calendar days.

Preferences

  • ABDL
  • Ageplay
  • Anal play
  • AV
  • CBT
  • Dirty Talk
  • Edging
  • Discipline
  • Facesitting
  • Fisting
  • For Women
  • Foot fetish
  • Impact play
  • Chastity
  • Tickling
  • Latex
  • Leather
  • Water sports
  • Objectification
  • Pet play
  • Wrestling
  • Cane
  • Roleplay
  • Sensual play
  • Spanking
  • Tease & Denial
  • Exhibition

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Languages

  • DE – German
  • EN – English

Taboos

  • KV
  • Vomit
  • Drogen
  • Topping from the bottom