Lady Johanna shares her thoughts on the meaning and practice of chastity in BDSM. For her, chastity is much more than a device – it is a symbol of trust, devotion, and absolute surrender.
When a submissive hands over control of their desire to the dominant, they give up all self-determination. From that moment, orgasm denial, tease and denial, and the granting of release lie entirely in the hands of the Mistress. This transfer of power creates not only discipline, but also a deep emotional and psychological bond between dominant and submissive.
Chastity play demands trust, honesty, respect, and willpower. It can be soft and playful or strict and merciless, depending on what is agreed upon. For the submissive, wearing a chastity device often becomes a powerful symbol of belonging and devotion, while the dominant enjoys the ability to shape, guide, and condition their submissive.
Tasks, rituals, and regular inspections ensure obedience and intensify desire. Small acts of teasing – a glance, a word, an image – can keep arousal at a peak while denial strengthens the bond and increases submission.
Ultimately, chastity training is a win-win situation: the submissive discovers new depths of surrender and personal growth, while the Mistress enjoys the pleasure of absolute control.
For Lady Johanna, chastity is not only discipline but also an intoxicating game of control, power, and lust – one that transforms both partners and deepens their connection.