Hands, skin, breath? Sometimes, the most immediate tools are the most powerful, creating intimacy and intensity without any artificial effort or distraction. And what excites me most is finding the way that works for you, pressing exactly your buttons, with toys or without!
I’m a Bizarrlady and a true switch. For me, the thrill lies in not having to decide. Dominant, submissive, playful, intense. The real magic happens when both of us let go, surrender to the moment, and simply enjoy the kinky game as it unfolds.
What defines me is my openness and my love for contrasts. I can be strict and bizarre, soft and sensual, playful and intense, sometimes all in one session. My strength is creating an atmosphere where you feel safe enough to let go and brave enough to explore. My strength lies in creating an atmosphere that is both safe and exciting: a space where you can let go of control, embrace your desires, and feel brave enough to explore fantasies you might not have dared to touch before.
BDSM gives us freedom to explore. For me, it’s about the joy of creating our own rules, and fully inhabiting our roles. It’s about playing beyond conventional expectations, discovering new shades of pleasure and intensity, and embracing the bizarre in every encounter. I love the fluidity of switching between roles, the thrill of improvisation, and the delight of seeing where surrender and curiosity can take us. Every session is an invitation to explore desire, push boundaries, and experience intimacy in a way that is both freeing and electrifying.
What I love about SM is the richness of sensations, the interplay of boundaries, and the thrill of exploring limits. I adore how we test and expand our edges, and how this creates an intimacy that works on entirely different levels than everyday life. SM allows for endlessly new experiences, moments that linger long after the session, leaving traces on the body, insights in the mind, or simply beautiful memories.
Since my early youth, I have been intensely interested in bodies and sexuality. How can one freely express oneself, how do pleasure and pain inscribe themselves on the body, how does the body change, and what sensations and experiences can it bring me? Sexuality is an essential part of my life, and so, a few years ago, I decided to pursue this path professionally. I have met many different people and have been able to broaden my own horizons enormously. The development towards the bizarre and switchy realm was gradual at first, but then it just became all the more urgent.
What I value above all are clear agreements and reliability, because they make respectful connection and a great shared experience possible.
To schedule an appointment, please send me an email at post@tamarasolidor.com. Please answer as many questions as possible: When would you like to meet and for how long? What are your expectations? What are your preferences and what are your no-gos? What should I keep in mind for our meeting? You can also reach me by phone or messenger at: +49 179 416 7883. I do not accept calls with a hidden number. Are you spontaneous? Sometimes I can be too! Maybe we'll get lucky and find a date at short notice. Feel free to check out my homepage, where you will always find an up-to-date calendar with my availability.
