Domina Moir
My aims, your surrender
Favourite activities in a session
- Shibari & crucifixion
- Impact play
- Humiliation
- Cbt
- Fear play
No Gos
- Vomit
- Intimate touch to the Domina
- Substances use
- Wrestling
Current favourite toy
My favourite toys are your mind and body; I also call them My instruments, canvas or playgrounds to explore and make hot and ecstatic use of.
My favourite toys are also ropes, whips, chastity cages, strap-ons, sometimes needles and your shaking, cathartic fear; recently, I have also been playing with crucifiction in ropes quite intensively; My favourite toys and scenarios are always in flux. Toys are for Me tools, extensions of Myself and doorways to provoke specific emotions and feelings. Different tools have different impacts on each submissive and I love to increase your sensitivity to them mindfully.
Fundamentally, however, I only need My voice to dominate you and make you my helpless object thirsting for more.
What kind of BDSM person are you?
I’m the kind of BDSM person who is fascinated by its psychology and the metaphors contained within it. I’m curious and hungry to explore what feels transgressive.
Let me taste your overwhelm and liberate hidden nature and potential within you.
I’m the kind of person who has the ability to sense instantly your state; My actions are attuned to you and I feed off your reactions.
I love to embody different energies when I play, they arise based on how I feel that day, what I want from you and what feels effective for your training.
I am sadistic but also nurturing;
I am sometimes cold, strict and mean;
I am warm, sensual and teasing;
Like the abyss of what’s unknown, I am a mystery.
I will take what I want, when I want it and you will let everything go.
I might talk to you dirty and intensely and then leave you in silence. I am intentional with every detail.
I’m curious and interested in getting to know My subjects, understand their background and how their sexuality and kink self first came to the surface and developed. Why they are attracted to each specific practice..this also allows Me to design each session in an unique and tailored way.
I’m thrilled to introduce newbies into this world but also very pleased to play with those who are more experienced. All genders are welcome. The longer the session the deeper we can sink into our dynamic, the more I will love our time.
What I particularly cherish are long term relationships in which trust can be built and the dedication grow.
What sets you apart?
My allure, piercing presence and cruel care will intimidate and magnetise you; I’ll hold your breath with my addictive smile and laugh.
The way I gaze at you while moaning in pleasure and discomfort; I love tying bodys in the most exposed and fixed positions and then use them as I please. I have been practicing shibari for the past 3 years and have been falling in love over and over with this art and its complexities. I could also experience how incredibly uplifting the effects of it has on people. I believe restriction frees the subconscious mind in a very interesting way. I offer it both on the floor, as semi and full suspension.
I will progressively train you to meet high standards; and your service and submission will come to reflect them.
I’ll mold you into what I please.
We all have layers of conditioning that keeps us from connecting with one another authentically and freely and I find the process of deconstruction of those very fascinating. As My submissive I want to discipline you into a version of you that is rooted in what feels truthful and facilitate the process of undoing what is not. I want to crush your ego and look closely at what’s left. Over and over again. On the other hand, I also enjoy and feel satisfied in having pure fun, of course at your expense.
I can break you into pieces and gently guide you, make you feel safe with Me in this darkness. The possibilities are infinite. A new sensation, like electricity will start running through your soul and a pure feeling of Devotion will pervade your whole being. I want to do many different things to you. Dare to approach Me and let yourself be blown away.
What is dominance / submission for you?
Dominance is for Me the art of directing someone else’s focus in ways that are expanding and inspiring. It’s about destroying what isn’t serving you and our dynamic and creating new patterns of sacrifice to Me. It’s a form of raw and violent creativity with you as My canvas. Dominance is made of leadership, responsibility, care and ultimately also service. I support your improvement and through your growth you will serve and please Me better and better. In My dominance I also become the receiver; but what are you capable of offering?
Submission is the art of opening up, surrendering and drop masks, the need to perform and the weight of the outside world. It’s the art of becoming more and more receptive to My commands, My wishes and My inputs. The experience of submission is very personal for each of My devotees and is as unique as their personality.
Both Dominant and submissive become hyper present, a state unlike any other. What I find of profound value is the level of attentiveness and investment that I measure through acts of generosity and care towards My wellness. Trust is mutual and built over time, allowing us to gradually elevate our dynamic.
Dominance and submission are two poles or paradoxes of the same core, they are interconnected in a dance of symbols and rituals. I think consciously engaging in kink can bring deeper understanding and self-knowledge in many if not all areas of life.
What do you love about SM?
I love My dominant self and the creativity that flows through Me while interacting with you on such a vulnerable, trustworthy and intimate level; how the connection during play makes everything else disappear. I love that I get to care for your secrets and bring your fantasies to reality. I love to create rituals where you can experience states of trance. I love that I get to dive into what is otherwise unseen, uncomfortable, unconventional and untamed. I believe it is deeply liberating to shed light on the dark parts of one‘s psyche and desires. In this way, we can become more whole and live more fully.
How did you start with this job / what has changed since then?
I started feeling attracted to the little I knew about this job as I desired to find relief from a strong emotion I was storing inside of me. Which I then came to learn how to care for within Myself. I was also in need of consent being practised and talked about, which I first and only found in the world of BDSM.
I then discovered how this job was about creating space for people to explore the parts of their sexuality that are or have been repressed from the outside; and so I have felt great admiration for the role and position of the Dominatrix. Our need for play, discovery and our sexuality, raw and powerful, need to be expressed. I believe to have safe and non-judgemental spaces is crucial for the collective‘s betterment and one‘s well being.
The more I informed and educated myself, the more I felt fascinated, intrigued and called to this job.
I remember the first person who confessed to Me his darkest desire and how he knelt at My feet without me even asking him to. I grew so much in My dominance since that time and it has been such a self-reflective journey about what I want, need, how to communicate it and much more.
Since starting this job I got to know the most curious and brave beings and I also got to feel more alive.
How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
To make an appointment with Me you can use the contact form or send Me an email.
In your message I would like to read a short introduction of yourself, your interests, level of experience and some dates suggestions for our first meeting.
I usually like to meet people for a longer pre-talk on a different day then the session‘s one, which can happen in person or via video call/call; however that is not a requirement and the pre-talk can happen the same day of the session.
I’m usually available every day of the week from the early afternoon till late evening; My schedule is quite busy so booking a week in advance is suggested. Other than that I’m available at the studio in My calendar days.
I will not accept same-day bookings and will chat with you only with tribute.
Deposit is required.