Hands On Hands In - 14.11.2026 - 11am-3pm
14.11.2026
Hands On Hands In - Playful Introduction to Queer Fisting
In this practical work- & playshop we invite participants to start out with their bodies as exploratory landscapes to the joy of queer fisting. This beginner friendly container provides information as well as a hands-on approach on getting your hands in. We will use the whole body to dive into the pleasures of fisting before we cover (or enter) all holes. We will use methods informed by Sexological Bodywork and mindfulness practices as well as our own kink experiences.
This workshop also includes information and practical introductions to anal and genital fisting - both giving and receiving. It is aimed at interested beginner fisters/fistees.
You are very invited to bring a partner, yet we also want to encourage people to come alone and be open to new experiences with others.
Expectation management is key: if you have never fisted or been fisted before, there is no guarantee that it will happen in a few hours, but we will provide you with a map to get there. ;) Due to time limitations, you may get to only experience one role.
Raf (they)
Raf is a white, British, transmasc non-binary queer, educator, facilitator and coach in the areas of sex, relationships, BDSM and health in Berlin and London. Raf also facilitates regular groups in Berlin, including on the themes of death, queer ageing, and menopause as well as practical, kink-related workshops.
E-Mail: rafbenato@gmail.com, IG: @rafbeckberlin Phone: +447545569290
Jespa (he/they)
Jespa experiences the world from a white, neuro-spicy, mostly able bodied and gay, trans-masc/non-binary perspective. They work as a Curiosity Coach around sexuality and somatics and as a Performance Artist, facilitating work/playshops and developing creative rituals on connection, communication and sexual energy.
hey@queertools.de, www.queertools.de Telegram: https://t.me/+baM65g8Su2oxM2Ni