Blade Fonteyn

Favourite activities in a session

• NS
• Strap-on
• Threesomes with Couples or other Dominas
• Fisting
• Age-play games

No Gos

• kaviar
• vomit
• rimming

Current favourite toy
I love wearing a strap-on. There’s nothing sexier to me than a powerful, dominant woman with a big piece. Don’t worry though: if it’s your first time I have all shapes and sizes to suit your needs and preferences. To continue the theme – I love anal training with my play partners in general. Fisting is a really intimate act when done properly. My strong little hands are just right for the fisting connoisseurs out there. And finally, there is Latex. I love latex, wearing it, shining it, playing in it.

What kind of BDSM person are you?
My Dominant nickname is “Mummy”. That’s what I like my subs to call me (if you are into it, of course). I’m a big fan of nurturing, erotic training: as my sub you can relax and know that you are in my soft, capable hands. Trained in tantra, I offer full body tantric practice to release the body and the mind. As a nurturing Dominant, I sometimes take on a Nurse or a Teacher role: a soothing figure who is there to protect, nurture and care for you and your needs. But a caring figure who also has her own dirty and perverted ideas about what is good for you, someone who likes to push the boundaries of what is socially acceptable. A caring figure who takes advantage of her power.

I also relish any opportunity I get to indulge in my sadistic side. As your bratty little Dominatrix, I enjoy ordering my submissive around, punishing you if you’re disobedient, torturing you with my tools when you don’t listen, and rewarding you with my slender, perfect feet if you’re good enough. I seek subs who truly wish to reflect and work on their inner imperfections who have the strength to show them to me, and to work through them in my divine presence.

I also sometimes enjoy switching, if the mood is right. My submissive side is wild, sexy, fun and energetic. With the right person I love to surrender control (for once!). In my adult years I have developed a craving for discipline – I enjoy being trained to traditionally serve a responsible and worthy Mistress or Master. The act of creating trust between players and the surrender of my control to someone else is a beautiful and powerful experience. If I’m subbing, you can also decide what mood you want to catch me in. Maybe that day I am feeling particularly brattish, and I’ll be extremely difficult to tame. Or perhaps you’re looking for someone silent, obedient and humbly at your service. Basically, I can be a very good girl, or a very bad one. Let’s decide together.

What sets you apart
I am very experienced in constructing complex, lengthy roleplay and menage-a-trois scenarios. With a particular interest in couples therapy, I enjoy inviting all relationship configurations into my space for sessions of exploration, training, learning and discovery. I am an excellent communicator and I welcome those who are seasoned explorers as well as those who are completely new to the world of kink. I am extremely flexible and adaptive: I have many forms and selves and the ability to fluidly switch between them depending on the needs of my guests and our environment. And I pour all of myself into each version of me, I delight in authenticity.

What is dominance / submission for you?
Dominance and submission, to me, are ways for us to interact with versions of ourselves that society says are “forbidden.” To me, being dominant means taking responsibility for the development of other people. For me, dominance is an act of caring. Submission for me is liberation. Submission is where we go when we want to escape reality and engage with the darkest, most violent, and strongest parts of ourselves.

What do you love about SM
I love the freedom of expression, the self-realisation I experience through it, and the wonderful people I get to work with in the BDSM scene. Sado-Masichism, Dominance and Submission are all ways to work through shame. Shame is one of the most powerful methods of control that society has over us. Through Kink, D/s and S&M we find ways to explore our shame and free ourselves from it. For me, this is a form of therapy everyone should have the right to access.

How did you start with this job / what has changed since then
I have been exploring BDSM privately since 2016. It’s been great to channel all those experiences and interests into a professional setting. I started working in Kink after a fun encounter at a play party in 2019. I was at an orgy with some friends. I had just moved to Berlin and we were playing around with some Wi-Fi activated anal toys when one of the boys told me that I was so good at it that I should „consider going professional“. I guess the rest is history! I started out as a pro-submissive at Studio Avalon before its closure in 2019 and have been honored to be part of the team at Studio LUX ever since. In the time that I came to the scene, our industry has been challenged by COVID-19, increased anti-sex work stigma and calls for the Criminalisation of our important work. As a result, in the last few years I have become heavily involved in sex-worker activism, fighting for the rights of sex workers from all walks of life and bringing awareness to the struggle and needs of our vibrant and essential community.

How can I make an appointment with you? When do you have time?
Please contact me via email or my website www.bladefonteyn.com if you wish to make an appointment. Always state whether you are interested in subbing or switching for me. I usually have 5-6 calendar days a month in normal working seasons, but am also available outside of those days. If I am not in the calendar, then please enquire with me directly via email to ask if I have time.