Blade Fonteyn

when I am dominant:

First and foremost is my beautiful (and growing) latex collection. I love both the aesthetic and the feeling of this fetish gear. Toy wise, I love my strap-on and the demonic hunger it gives me. I am also a big butt plug fan, give me butt plugs with diamonds. I love to orgasm as many times as possible with as many toys and sensations as possible, how many combinations can we find?

I’m a Switch, through and through. I have many sides to me, all of them working in harmony to contribute to my dynamic and adventurous spirit: As a domme, my nickname is “Mummy”, that’s what I like my subs to call me. An inclination for dominance has always existed within me, and as with my submissive side, my dominant side can take on multiple forms. I’m a big fan of the nurturing, erotic touch: as my sub you can relax and know that you are in soft, capable hands. Trained in tantra, I offer full body tantric practice to release the body and the mind. As a nurturing domme, I sometimes take on a nurse or babysitter role, a soothing figure who is there to protect, nurture and care for you and your needs. But a caring figure who also has her own dirty and perverted ideas about what is good for you, someone who likes to push the boundaries of what is socially acceptable. However, I also relish any opportunity to indulge in my sadistic tastes. As your bratty little dominatrix, I enjoy ordering my submissive around, punishing you if you’re disobedient, torturing you with my tools when you don’t listen, and rewarding you with my slender, perfect feet if you’re good enough. I seek subs who truly wish to reflect and work on their inner imperfections, to show them to me and to work through them in my presence. My submissive side is adorable, sexy, fun and energetic and with the right person I love to surrender control (for once!). In my adult years I have developed a craving for discipline – whether it’s the nurturing kind or the sadistic kind. I am a masochist, and I know my own body. With this knowledge safely in hand I enjoy pushing my stamina and tolerance to its limits, exploring that deliciously thin line between pleasure and pain. The act of creating trust between players and the surrender of my control to someone else is a beautiful and powerful experience that I love deeply. If you’re my Dom(me), you can experience my surrender and my trust in you. Handing over the responsibility of my care to you frees me, whether that care takes the form of harsh punishment, discipline, or nurturing guidance. When I’m subbing, you can also decide what mood you want to catch me in. Maybe that day I am feeling particularly brattish, and I’ll be extremely difficult to tame. Or perhaps you’re looking for someone silent, obedient and humbly at your service. Basically, I can be a very good girl, or a very bad one.

I have a deep love of roleplaying and menage-a-trois. With a particular interest in couples therapy, I enjoy inviting all relationship configurations into my space for sessions of exploration, training, learning and discovery. I am an excellent communicator and intimacy facilitator and welcome both those who are seasoned explorers as well as those new to the world of kink. I am extremely flexible and adaptive, kind of like a sexy chameleon. I have many forms and selves and the ability to fluidly switch between them depending on the needs of my guests and our environment. And I pour all of myself into each version of me, I delight in authenticity.

Dominance and submission, to me, are ways for us to interact with versions of ourselves that society says are “forbidden.” To me, being dominant means taking responsibility for the development of other people. For me, dominance is an act of caring. Submission for me is liberation. Submission is where I go when I want to escape reality and engage with the darkest, most violent, and strongest parts of myself. Through submission, I bring myself into being.

The freedom of my own expression, the self-realization I experience through it, and the wonderful people I get to work with. S and M is a way to work through shame. Shame is one of the most powerful methods of control that society has over us. Through Kink, D/s and S&M we find ways to explore our shame and free ourselves from it. For me, this is therapy…

I moved to Berlin in summer 2019 to take a break from my academic career in order to explore my creative endeavors. I started out as a pro-submissive at Studio Avalon before its closure in 2019 and am extremely honored and happy to now be part of the team at Studio LUX. I have been interested in BDSM and intimacy coordination for around 6 years. It’s been great to channel those experiences and interests into a professional setting. Obviously in the time that I came to the scene, our industry has been challenged by COVID more so than many other industries. As a result, in the last years I have become heavily involved in sex-worker activism, fighting for the rights of sex workers from all walks of life and bringing awareness to the struggle and needs of our vibrant and essential community.

Please contact me via email or my website www.bladefonteyn.com if you wish to make an appointment. Please always state whether you are interested in subbing, domming or switching. I usually have 5-6 calendar days a month in normal working seasons, but am also available outside of those days. If I am not in the calendar regularly, then please enquire with me directly via email to ask if I have time.