Favorite Activities

• Tease and denial
• Long, delicate handjobs + edging
• Orgasm control
• Theatrical and ritual elements
• Sensory stimulation and sensory deprivation

Current favorite toy

My voice, my body, my hands

What kind of kinky personality are you?

I will take my time with you. Conversations are an important part of the session. They provide depth and a context for what is being experienced. However, I usually speak only a few words during the playtime – I am interested in another, an inner level of perception. An exclusion of everything but the encounter.
Out of the darkness, the sound of a silvery, warm voice can be heard. Focus on your reactions. Micro-attention. Breath. Twitching. When your eyes are blindfolded, sounds ring out especially clearly. The restraints hold you. A sense of spaciousness. I might whisper softly in your ear as I stroke the bulge of your pants. Slowly sliding my fingers under the fabric… Stroking your naked body… The strap-on is already prepared for you. The flogger lies next to me. The most thrilling part for me is when I do something unexpected – even for myself – that absolutely fits in that moment. In these instants I have the feeling of a flow and a close connection with my play partner.
The whole attention is sharpened, all the tiny hairs are standing electrified….

What defines you?

Psychedelic-like experience… Rhapsody… Immersion. I want to create scenarios that enable a hyperfocus inwards.
I am concerned with complex interpersonal experiences, touch, breath.
Finding one’s way in ever-changing situations, navigating an intimate, intense encounter.

What is BDSM to you?

Both submission and dominance are for me connected with devotion, meaning a mutual dedication for the time together. As the active part, I take the lead. I am very interested in people of all genders who can get absorbed in their own inner worlds, who are curious and open. Who have their preferences or questions – also burning, very concrete, very detailed ones. During the session I want to find out what kinds of touch bring you to ecstasy, what scenarios stimulate you mentally, what is essential for you.

What do you love about SM?

I am interested in eroticism in its complexity. Eye level and respect are crucial for me. In our play time, the basis is less a hierarchy in the sense of SM, but the following dynamic: I compose and shape our session – based on your fantasies. I am not intimately touchable, but I touch you. The fact that I detach myself in this way allows me to be a mirror to you. My concentration is on you. My pleasure is to enable something inner to be experienced and expressed. If you want, I will accompany you.

How did you start and what has changed since?

During my studies I began working as a nude model for visual artists and photographers. Since 2016 I work in different areas of sex work. I studied Theatre Studies, Religious Studies and Japanese Studies (M.A.), and I also trained in dance therapy and art therapy.

I am a professional performance artist and a singer/voice performer in experimental projects. I draw inspiration from my theatrical and musical experiences and include them in my sessions.

How can one arrange an appointment with you? When are you available?

I am currently based in Japan, but I visit Berlin once or twice per year.

On my studio days, I am always also available for appointments outside of the displayed times.
Just ask me!

In general: Get in touch with me if you want to meet me, even if I'm not currently available in the calendar. We can plan together. Anticipation is sexy...
Please make an appointment by email: contact@dahlianyx.com.

I'm looking forward to our time together!