Age play is one of my favored dynamics. Being in charge of a starry eyed little, fills my Big heart with joy. It puts pride in my eyes to watch the connection we grow together develop through commitment, trust, obedience, and letting go. I enjoy the opportunity to engage deeply in role play and kink. Blending everyday and casual with fetish, leather, and rubber. Becoming a Dad, a Teacher, a Farmer, a Doctor, with hidden layers of complex perversion lingering underneath. I take great pleasure in developing and perfecting the details and personality of these dynamics.
My role as Daddy to my boy is one of my most important and fulfilling dynamics. We have grown from regular supervision, to full time surveillance. From asking permission, to handing over full control. From building trust, to unwavering dedication and commitment. To each other.
I've always wanted my dad to have complete parental authority over me, to give me rules for everyday life, to impart his values and views, and to have control in all areas of my life. He decides everything, and I have to ask his permission.
When he needs to learn, I lash his bottom with my leather belt, one I inherited from my own father. In order to discipline him and to help him to grow. He is completely devoted to becoming the boy that I decide on raising him to be. It gets my heart racing, hearing the crack of my belt on his bare cheeks bent over the armrest. When he whimpers with the smack of the lashes, I want to groan. Spreading him across my lap and spanking his bare bottom until my hand gives out or blisters.
I’m proud of him for working on becoming who I know he can be. As his Daddy, I do my best to keep my excitement out of his eye line. Tucking myself to the other leg trouser while he’s sitting on the floor clinging to my knee, looking up at me in my office chair. While I work at the computer changing his online banking, home surveillance system, and smart home appliance passwords and account emails, to my own. Or, by placing a pillow over my lap, so he can rest his head on something soft, while he cuddles up to me after receiving his punishment.
He also disciplines me strongly and punishes me consistently. This might be a stern lecture, grounding, writing lines, slaps, or a spanking. It can range from a light smack to a spanking so severe that I can't sit for a few days. I feel ashamed, and it's always very intimidating.
As a Daddy Dom/Caregiver, I focus my attention on first observing and understanding my little one. Whether they need teaching, attention, punishment, control, play. All of the above.
Through negotiation and consent, I also approach age play with darker themes; the more experienced rough and tumble older neighbor boy, the lone rugged rural farmer near the family’s summer house, the big cousin and his mean gang of brothers and friends, the coach with the lingering hand on your shoulder, an inquisitive and friendly family Doctor.
Particularly I relish in full-time and Total Power Exchange dynamics. Though that is a privilege a very select and special few may qualify for. Handing over full control to your Big, Daddy, Caregiver, Dom, is a significant step for any little or sub or boy to make. Not only is there a deep emotional responsibility. In a TPE dynamic, the practicalities of taking over all of a little one’s spending choices, daily routine, general finances, meals, and social calendars, is a time and focus consuming commitment. Their longevity and security is important to me. I take the responsibility on, selectively.
I understand that Daddy is right. I feel loved because I know Daddy wants what's best for me. I'm afraid Daddy will punish me too, and I always try my best. What truly sets my Daddy apart is his dedication and his sophisticated communication skills. He's the best daddy in the world to me! ... Daddy, I love you!
Littles are welcome to reach out and share their desire, their fantasy, and themselves with me. Age play is something I’m often excited to engage in. Through a wide variety of dynamics. Sexual or non-sexual. I keep myself open to the prospect of taking on another full-time/TPE sub or other little one. Raising them under the guidance of my strict hand. For the sake of the depth and fullness of our relation, I am in the first instance, a good listener. From there, I readily and fully engage.
You can keep up to date with the series ‘notes from my s*n’. Regularly posted on my Instagram stories @MeanDaddyDean_. Where you will find consistent insight into our relationship and experiences.
