Jamie Transboy_Dom

Lieblingsaktivitäten in einer Session:

• Queer/ SLINTA/ Women
• Feminization & Masculinization & Androgynization
• DS
• Roleplaying (e.g., CNC)
• Wrestling

Favorite Toy

My current favorite toys let me play with your senses, your perceptions, and your roles. Each of them creates a fluid experience, allowing for constant change and transformation, whether through physical shifts, role reversals, or the exploration of your boundaries and sensations.

Masks and costumes, for example: They allow for a powerful transformation in how we perform, in who we are, and in the roles we take on – both physically and mentally. Slipping into a new identity, shedding old patterns, and discovering yourself in a completely different way is incredibly intoxicating. Masks and costumes are symbols of identity’s fluidity, a way to explore metamorphosis. It’s not just an inner shift; it’s a change you can see, feel, and embody.

Then, there are temperature play toys: Hot wax, cool metal – they each offer an entirely new way to feel your body. The contrast between heat and cold ignites more than just physical sensations; it triggers a deep psychological transformation. It’s a way to sharpen your senses, to shift how you perceive yourself, and to dive into a powerful metamorphosis that awakens every part of you.

I also love sensory deprivation: Blindfolds, earplugs, or other toys that blur your senses, creating a delicious state of uncertainty and surrender. These tools allow us to focus entirely on our inner sensations, on the bond between us. It creates a space where perception transforms, becoming more fluid, more intense – where every touch, every whisper takes on a deeper meaning.

Other favorite toys are roleplays and dynamic shifts: They offer the possibility to switch between different roles and reverse power dynamics. Tools that combine control and surrender provide the flowing transition between various dynamics, creating an exciting and erotic transformative experience. I love the fluid shift between different sensory experiences, such as from pain to pleasure. I enjoy putting you into a state where you experience the intensity of your feelings in a new way – in the transformation from pain to pleasure, you allow deeper, unexplored bodily reactions and sensations to emerge.

What kind of BDSM Person are you?

I see myself as someone who blends dominance, creativity, dedication, and expertise with a presence that transcends traditional gender norms and boundaries. For me, BDSM is not just about the act itself; it is a space for exploration, transformation, and intimacy. I am not confined by a specific label or role. As a queer transmasculine person, I embrace fluidity in all its forms, and I bring this into every aspect of my BDSM practice. This fluidity allows me to shape experiences that are both empowering and deeply intimate, guided by a balance of strength, empathy, and respect.

||| Dominance with Mindfulness:
At the core of my BDSM identity is a sense of dominance that is rooted in mindfulness and care. To me, dominance is not simply about control, but about creating an environment where both parties can explore vulnerability and power in equal measure. I approach power dynamics with a deep understanding of trust, communication, and respect. As a dominant, I am attuned to my partner’s emotions, needs, and boundaries. My dominance comes from a place of responsibility – the responsibility to ensure that my partner feels safe, seen, and heard, no matter how deep the experience goes. What sets me apart is that my approach to dominance is also profoundly shaped by my awareness of power structures and the ways in which they can be oppressive. As a queer transmasculine person, I understand the complexities of identity, discrimination, and marginalization. This awareness informs how I engage in BDSM. When I assume control, it is with a deep sense of respect for the autonomy of my partner, ensuring that they have the freedom to explore their own desires and limits. Power is not something I take lightly, and I use it as a tool to create transformative experiences, not to dominate for the sake of dominance. I do not see my partner as someone to be subjugated, but as someone to be guided, nurtured, and empowered.

||| Fluidity and Transformation:
One of the aspects of BDSM that excites me the most is the fluidity it offers – fluidity in power, in identity, in sensation, and in experience. Gender norms, societal expectations, and traditional roles have no place here. With me, there is always room to transform, to change, to explore new aspects of yourself. I invite my sub into a space where they can leave behind the constraints of the outside world and step into something more fluid and expansive. As someone who embraces the complexities of gender identity, I bring that same fluidity to my approach to BDSM. Whether it’s through roleplay, dress-up, or even the shifting dynamics within a scene, I create a space where gender and identity are free to flow, expand, and evolve. My transmasculinity does not define my approach to BDSM, but it informs my understanding of fluidity and transformation. I see myself as a guide who facilitates not just a play of power, but a play of self-exploration. We are not locked into rigid roles or expectations. In my presence, we can bend the rules, play with them, and explore a range of identities and expressions that feel authentic to us.

||| Empathy and Awareness:
I believe that a truly transformative BDSM experience is built on a foundation of empathy. It’s about being attuned to the emotional and psychological space of me and my sub(s). BDSM is not just about the physical exchange of sensations – it’s about connection, about understanding where the other person is, both mentally and emotionally. When we explore pain, fear, or trauma, I approach it with a great deal of care and awareness. I am fully aware that these experiences can be intense, and I am committed to ensuring that they are handled with compassion and mindfulness. My role as a dominant is not to push my sub into discomfort or distress, but to create a safe space where you can explore your pain, fears, or past traumas, if you wish, and transform them into something that brings empowerment or healing. With me, there is an invitation to explore these feelings without fear of judgment, and to move through them with guidance, care, and support. I am not interested in exploiting vulnerabilities, but in helping my sub(s) access them in a safe and transformative way. Every experience I create is deeply mindful of emotional safety, and I encourage you to always communicate your needs, boundaries, and desires.

||| Surrender and Control:
While I bring complete control and guidance into the experience, I understand that BDSM is a two-way exchange. Just as I am dedicated to providing safety and support, I am also aware of the power dynamics that are at play. I encourage you to embrace surrender – to let go of your inhibitions, to trust in my guidance, and to submit to the experience. Surrender is not a loss of power; it is a reclaiming of it, through the act of trust and vulnerability. In our encounters, I invite you to surrender to me, but I also offer you a space where you can reclaim your own power in the process. The fluidity of power exchange in BDSM allows both of us to shift roles, experiment, and transform. I believe in fostering an environment where both the dominant and submissive roles are equally empowered, where all participants can explore their desires, needs, and identities in a way that feels authentic and freeing.

What is special about you?

I combine dominance, creativity, dedication, and expertise with a presence that transcends the boundaries of gender and norms, embracing fluidity in all forms. As a queer transmasculine person, I am deeply aware of power structures and discrimination – and this is exactly what I bring into our encounter. I will approach your pain, your fears, and your traumas with mindfulness. With me, you can find a space where you can lose yourself, experiment, and feel safe, while simultaneously surrendering to my complete control and guidance. I invite you to engage with me in a conversation about what your needs are.

What is Dominance / Submission for you?

Dominance and submission, to me, are a game of mutual surrender and attraction. I take you in my control, open myself to you, guide you safely, challenge you, hold you in place, and reward you. I responsibly control your pleasure, satisfaction, desire, and pain. Body and mind are the playground for our game, where we create new dimensions of lust, feeling, and longing. I present myself to you with my body, my undivided attention, my creativity, and my dedication to experiencing you. Dominance and submission, for me, are the act of creating a physical and mental space where sensations arise that transcent the ordinary world.

What do you love about SM?

What I love about SM is that fantasies can be consensually enacted that would be unthinkable outside of this space. Diverse, boundless, beyond norms of disgust, taboos, and conventions. In a well-guided SM space, there is room for your secret desires, your shameful preferences, and (unconventional) (sexual) fantasies. SM experiences can be incredibly empowering, healing, and profoundly enriching.

How did you start with this job and what has changed since then?

For at least eight years, I have continuously professionalized myself, refined my skills and developed new, creative ideas. I have a tireless curiosity about people and their deepest desires, I have studied their bodies and minds, creating a space for my dominance to develop and grow. I constantly discover new, surprising passions and hidden facets and delve deeper into what I already know – always hungry to learn and experience more.