Luna
Luna
Dominant

Between Tenderness and Cruelty

I am a queer Dominatrix,
tender in my cruelty,
loving in my control.
I play with your strength,
with your trembling, your surrender –
until you forget yourself
and perhaps discover a new piece of you.

About Me

Favorite Activities

  • dirty games
  • clinic
  • roleplay (disciplinary play, age play, doll play, fantasy games, therapeutic play, ritual/spiritual play)
  • embodied roughplay
  • sensory play (rope, wax, etc)

Current favorite toy

You are my favorite toy—with your skin, your gaze, your breath, all the subtle reactions that betray you. I prefer to use my own body as a tool: my weight, my hands, which first caress you gently and then strike you surprisingly hard; my feet, which kick you; my claws, which I slowly extend, pinching and scratching you; my mouth, which kisses you tenderly, only to sink my teeth into you the next moment. But there is so much more that inspires me: stinging nettles, hot ginger, chili peppers, or raw sticks. And sometimes I bring out absurd objects that you may never have seen before – how about a horse grooming brush?

What kind of kinky personality are you?

I love transforming myself—costumes, roles, characters. As a costume designer, I live out this creativity every day, and in BDSM it becomes my playground. Sometimes I appear as a lustful gynecologist who examines you in detail, sometimes as a mysterious high priestess who draws you into dark, magical rituals, sometimes as a doll maker who shapes you according to his ideas. I love to take the fantasies and scenarios that people bring with them and creatively implement them, bringing them to life and making them tangible through roles, gestures, expression, and staging.
Due to my background in psychology and therapy—and also simply because I am an empathetic and loving person—it is important to me to create space for vulnerability in play. For me, BDSM means getting into the body and thereby opening up access to feelings that are often blocked or held back. When something comes up, I accept it, hold it, and give you the space you need—if you want me to. Everything is allowed: fear, lust, blockages, resistance. I value you as you are and accompany you in whatever is there at the moment. Through play, I see the potential to relive old experiences of powerlessness, to rewrite them, to regain your own strength and thereby empower yourself. I am aware of how intimate and vulnerable this can be, and for me, that is precisely where the special depth of BDSM lies. Maybe you want to try out new roles, discover hidden or unexpected sides of yourself, or simply push your limits—I look forward to guiding you playfully, experimenting with you, and exploring together the pleasure, surprises, and little secrets that await you.
I am queer and non-binary and bring my perspective, my reflections, and my awareness of power, privilege, and discrimination to every encounter (I am not perfect at all). It is important to me to play consciously, take responsibility, and take the dynamics of power, control, and roles seriously. At the same time, I create a safe, gentle space where everything that happens can be reflected upon, appreciated, and experienced as fulfilling.
In addition to my loving, empathetic, and caring approach, I am also deeply sadistic. I enjoy playing with pain, disgust, or fear, moving lustfully into taboos and creating those moments where surrender and control flow inextricably into one another. It is precisely where it becomes raw, intense, and perhaps even disturbing that the real magic unfolds for me—clear, unadorned, and electrifying.

What defines you?

What defines me is my complexity. I am changeable, fluid—from extremely gentle to extremely merciless. In my sessions, authenticity and performance come together: I am completely there, genuine, present, and at the same time I love to play with characters and roles. I love contrasts: tenderness and harshness, control and surrender, closeness and distance. My sessions can be ritualistic and transformative, physical and powerful, playful or extremely dirty.
Sometimes it gets quiet and sensual, sometimes ecstatic, dark, hard – a gentle bondage, an intense ritual or a violent mindfuck game. Everything that happens happens in the moment – real, intense, alive.

What is BDSM to you?

For me, BDSM is a space where we can feel, experience, and discover ourselves. It is an intense, intimate place where we consciously play with power and control while also taking responsibility for one another. Here, hidden fantasies, fears, and everything associated with shame can emerge and come to life in a safe, consensual setting. Your trust and devotion are a precious gift to me, which I treat with care and respect—together we create moments that are conscious, intense, and deeply fulfilling.

What do you love about SM?

I love playing with your senses and your body. I love watching you closely, taking in every breath, every tiny movement—and waiting eagerly for you to make a mistake just so I can punish you, all the while wearing a sweet smile on my lips. It turns me on to feel your fear, your disgust, and your lust, to play with these emotions, to guide and challenge you.
For me, it is pure joy to create scenarios where control, surrender, and surprise collide. Every reaction, every tremor, every breath becomes part of the game, creating a moment that is intense, alive, and completely unique—that's what makes SM so fascinating and intoxicating for me.

How did you start and what has changed since?

I started working professionally as a dominatrix seven years ago, after several years of being active in the queer BDSM scene and privately. In this work, I have found my calling: a space where I can combine empathy, creativity, and my desire for torment. With every new experience, every person, every fantasy, my own play grows—new techniques, new dynamics, new depths. I am constantly evolving, discovering new sides to myself and incorporating all of this into my sessions – lively, sensual and always changing.

What do you expect from your play partners?

It is important to me that my boundaries and my body are respected – without comments. I expect conscious, respectful interaction in which we both take responsibility for what we create.
I want you to come with whatever is there at the moment – whether it is curiosity, shame, insecurity, or longing. Honesty, openness, and willingness to communicate are important to me, but I know that it is not always easy to put everything into words. If you find it difficult to express your needs or desires, I will accompany you in feeling them and making them tangible.
Physical hygiene is a matter of course for me.

How can one arrange an appointment with you? When are you available?

Thank you for reading my profile.
I look forward to getting to know you—and to a session with you.
Feel free to send me a whatsapp message or email with a few words about yourself, your wishes, the desired session duration, and possible dates.
Sessions usually take place on calendar days—exceptions are possible by arrangement.

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Languages

  • DE – German
  • EN – English

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